Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Thank You, Mimi




I just wanted to take time to put up a post thanking my mom, or Mimi as she is better known in these parts, for all the time she spent with us during this time of transition adding Lindy to our family.


She took four weeks out of her busy schedule to come to Middle Tennessee and help us out. I can not adequately thank her for the meals she cooked, the laundry she did, the nights she kept Lindy with her until I needed to nurse so I could rest, the comfort she gave all four of us, her bright and happy attitude, and many other things. We all miss her so much, and not just because she is a good nanny, but for her encouragement and laughter and advice and love for all of us. She spends all of her time serving others, and she has I'd say all of her adult life. We are so grateful to be recipients of her love and service. She is a wonderful model for us, and I hope one day to be able to be like her. The best advice she ever gave me, which I still have to work on, is "Don't take yourself too seriously!" So now Kevin and I are taking care of our two children on our own like the rest of our friends who have children. I went to Walmart by myself with them both yesterday and there was only minimal crying and one temper tantrum. Laura had to remind me how to act in the store and in public.

On another note, when Mimi left last week, she took her digital camera with her, and as it was the only functional one in the house, my posts will probably not have as many photos as they have had recently. It looks like I'm going to have to send our new camera to Illinois to be fixed and it will take several weeks. I do have a wonderful 35mm film camera that works beautifully, but it isn't instant. So when there are pictures, they'll be from the old fashioned picture taking method.

And I also wanted to ask prayers for Lindy because we found out over the weekend that she is suffering from acid reflux and it causes her great pain. We got some antacid medication for her and it seems to be helping, but she still has periods every day where she is almost shreiking in her cries because her tummy hurts so much. And all we can do is hold her close and try to comfort her. The doctor said this is common, especially in babies born a bit early, and it clears up within the first year. I know this isn't cancer or anything like that, but I just hate to know she's hurting and not be able to make it go away for her. She is a sweet baby and I still can't quit looking at her. Well, except at night when I need to be sleeping. I can quit looking then because I'm just so tired. Yeah, she's a second child, isn't she? :) The reflux has been what has kept me away from the computer this week. It is hard to put up a post when the baby is writing in pain. And she's squirming and ready to get out of her papasan chairright now, so we'll go outside for some fresh air. Have a happy Wednesday!

3 comments:

Holly Aytes said...

Kara, I can totally relate to all that. Madison cried for the first 3 months of her life. That is how long it took to get her medications "tweaked" the right way. She stayed on 2 medications (1 given 4 times a day and the other 2 times a day) for the first 2 yrs of her life. Talk about time consuming. It was hard to watch her hurt and not be able to fix it, her ped ended up referring us to a GI specialist who ran about a gazillion tests to figure out exactly what was wrong (it ended up being more than just reflux in Madison's case). I will thinking about you and hope the meds start doing what they are supposed to do. Caleb also had reflux but his was easier to treat, I do remember the ped saying it takes about 2 weeks for the meds to really get in the system and start working the way they are supposed to. Our dr recommended a heating pad on my chest wrapped in a few towels and then the baby placed on it. It worked but check with you ped. I wouldn't want to give conflicting advice.
My mom was a life-saver. Couldn't have made it through any of the 3 kids without her. I am so lucky that she lives 10 minutes from me :)

Granddolls' MiMi said...

Thank YOU, my beautiful daughter for (with Kevin's help, of course) producing such awesome granddolls for me to spoil and cherish just like I did you!!!!! The month with the 4 of you went by way too quickly and I savor every memory deep within my heart. I spend at least an hour each day gazing at the pics while smiling with such joy and bragging to anyone who will listen to me! Mimi loves her LauraDoll and LindyLuv with ALL her heart! I love YOU too!

Cindy said...

What a blessing to have your mom there for 4 whole weeks! So helpful! I cried when my mom left after each baby, but you know it's time to get on with things!

I got your message tonight; we'll be in Gallatin the 20-22 for the wedding. We might be able to squeeze in a short visit early on Saturday...the wedding's not until that night, and I don't think we'll be that involved in the preparations. I'll call you soon!